Ginni is based around several subs and slaves that I've had the pleasure of knowing over the years, of a particular variety. The hyperactive genius variety. I added the puppygirl aspect for fun, but I have met people of that sort.
There was an hilarious story of one sub who had to duck under a table, when the Mensa group she belonged to decided on the spur of the moment to show up at a restaurant where the local BDSM munch was having it's monthly meeting. Nor was she the ONLY person to quickly "duck and cover."
They tend to seek out service-oriented positions, because a good cause can serve as well as a good Owner.
It was a person rather like Ginni that made the connection (on alt.sex.bondage - back when the Net was Flat and .emacs still roamed the land) between ADHD and being a heavy, heavy "bottom." It was said that a good monthly beating was better than Ritalin. And certainly there are many people who come - so to speak - just for the bottoming; no submission is involved at all. Some people choose to leap out of perfectly good airplanes to gain the same effect, or snowboard out of limits, or take up boxing. In that light, a trip to a skilled prodomme seems like a FAR more sensible choice.
Ginni is not exactly that sort, though she's in desperate need of an endorphin afterglow, her kink inclines her towards the gentler end of physical play and the more severe aspects of mental play.
I have had many intense conversations with people like Ginni over the years, which have led me to to the conclusion that many of the supposed "kinks" in BDSM are simply ways of dealing with atypical needs in a safe, sane and consensual way.
Indeed, they led me to re-examine all my ethics from first principles and redevelop them. I am, absolutely and without question, a far better person than I could otherwise have become.
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